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It’s the 21st century, and meeting new people doesn’t mean bumping into them at the library or going on set-up blind dates anymore. Enter dating apps. Finding “the one” is tough in today’s society, but if you don’t put yourself out there, you’ll never know either. Whether it’s for dating, friendships, or a physical adventure, apps are the new way to explore your options.
Ahead, find out what apps are out there in Singapore for romance, friendships, or a safe space to chat. There are plenty of apps designed for LGBTQ+ folks to meet and connect, and who knows, perhaps even find your soulmate or BFF.
1. Grindr – The OG Gay Dating App
For casual dating, hookups, and making connections
When it comes to LGBTQ+ apps for guys, Grindr is practically the OG. And no, it’s not just for sex and hookups. It’s widely used in Singapore and has a large user base, making it easy to find people nearby. Whether you’re looking for casual chats, dates, or friendships, Grindr connects you to people within seconds and within your vicinity.
On top of a free version available, the app is also easy to use with location-based matching. Just don’t expect a serious relationship to transpire from everybody you chat up. Set expectations by being upfront in your bio about what you’re looking for!
2. Tinder – Not Just For Straight People
For casual dating, serious relationships, and social networking
While Tinder started as a mainstream dating app, it has become much more LGBTQ+-friendly over the years. You can select your gender identity and sexual orientation when setting up your profile, ensuring you match with people who align with your preferences.
Its updated interface allows for various gender and sexuality options, making it a great option for both casual and serious dating. Do keep in mind that the free version has limited swipes per day, limiting your access to profiles daily. Pro tip: Use Tinder Passport (their paid feature) if you want to connect with LGBTQ+ folks outside of Singapore!
3. Her – The Ultimate App For Queer Women
For lesbian, bisexual, and queer women seeking dating or friendships
If you’re tired of swiping through Tinder and finding mostly straight or bicurious matches, Her is the perfect alternative. Designed for LGBTQ+ women and non-binary individuals, Her offers a mix of dating and social networking features. It even has group discussions and events for the queer community.
However, their smaller user base compared more popular apps and some features requiring a paid subscription might limit you a tad bit. But hey, even if you’re not looking to date, their community chats are a great way to make friends!
4. Jack’d – A Social Network For Gay & Bi Men
For gay and bisexual men looking for more than just dating
Jack’d is a great alternative to Grindr, offering video chats, and other social networking features. It’s popular in Asia, including Singapore, and is perfect if you want to engage with a community beyond just dating. If you upgrade to their Jack’d Pro subscription, you’ll get access to unlimited daily matches, more advanced filtering services, anonymous profile viewing, and ‘insight’ data on people you may like.
5. OkCupid – Where Depth Matters
For LGBTQ+ individuals seeking meaningful relationships
If you’re done with one-word conversations and are looking for something deeper, OkCupid is the way to go. The app allows you to answer personality-based questions, helping you match with people who share similar values and interests to create more meaningful connections. Multiple gender and sexuality options are available, alongside algorithm-based matching for better compatibility.
6. Lex – Text-Based Social App For LGBTQ+ People
For queer individuals looking for community and friendships
If you love deep conversations and hate swiping on faces, Lex is for you. It’s a text-based social networking app where users post personal ads and connect through meaningful conversations. This way, it’s great for making LGBTQ+ friends in Singapore without superficial notions or impressions. It’s also an avenue to just speak to someone if you ever feel lonely. Some people organise queer-friendly events or meetups too!
7. Feeld – For The Open-Minded & Curious
For LGBTQ+ individuals and couples exploring non-traditional relationships
Feeld is a unique dating app that caters to people interested with unique statuses such as non-monogamy, open relationships, and unconventional dating styles. It’s a great app for LGBTQ+ individuals who want to explore without judgment, and looking to meet like-minded individuals. Remember to be honest about your relationship preferences on your profile to set expectations and avoid complicated situations!
8. Coffee Meets Bagel – For Slow & Serious Dating
For LGBTQ+ individuals looking for long-term relationships
Coffee Meets Bagel, or CMB for short, is perfect for those who prefer quality over quantity. Unlike swipe-heavy apps, CMB curates a few meaningful matches daily based on your preferences. It’s ideal if you’re looking for a serious relationship rather than casual dating. To support the algorithm, make sure your profile is well-detailed to attract the right people.
Dating Apps Open A World Of Endless Connections
Whether you’re looking for love, friendship, or just a safe space to chat, there’s an app for every LGBTQ+ person in Singapore. While mainstream apps like Tinder and OkCupid provide good options, LGBTQ+-specific platforms like Her, Grindr, and Lex offer spaces where you can be yourself without judgment.
The best way to find the right app? Experiment and see what works for you over time. Meeting new people can be thrilling, and with the right platform, you’re bound to find someone who just gets you. Who knows—you might just find your next best friend, partner, or even your new favorite queer community.
If you or someone you know is exploring their journey with sexual identity or coming out, A Space Between provides a safe environment for support with queer-friendly counsellors. Besides being a resource for help or navigating the challenge of coming out, A Space Between also shares advice on therapy and LGBTQ+ issues through online blog articles, as well as holding community events.
